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Embodiment and Sex Coaching in Fort Collins, Colorado and Online
Learn to notice your body’s signals so you can recognize your limits, connect with your desires, and feel more alive
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The Struggle Is Real
Sometimes knowing what you really want is harder than it sounds.
You might recognize one of these common blocks:
Mind / Body Disconnect
You can explain
almost anything...
...except what's
happening
in your body
People Pleasing
You love being
helpful so much...
...you forget
how to say no
Feeling All The Things
You take in
everything...
...and sometimes
it’s just... a lot
These patterns don't just show up in everyday life.
They show up in intimacy too.
I’m a sex coach.
Which means I spend a lot of time teaching life skills.
I specialize in embodiment and relationship tools that scale from innocent to erotic.
The same abilities that help you navigate everyday boundaries and burnout also shape intimacy, pleasure, and connection.
The good news: these are simple, learnable skills.
Ways to work together
Work 1:1
Personalized support for individuals and couples exploring embodiment, intimacy, pleasure, and connection. 1:1 spots are currently full, join the list to be notified.
Groups & Events
Classes, workshops, and community experiences for practicing embodiment skills in a shared setting. New groups are coming in 2027, join the list to be notified.
Hi, I'm James (he/him)
I avoided noticing my body for most of my life.
When I finally slowed down and listened, I noticed things I had ignored for years:
Sensory overload, chronic overwhelm, clothes that didn't fit (and a gender that didn’t either) and the deeper realization that I needed to live in the world differently.
No wonder connecting with other people, and with my own eroticism, felt so complicated.
But I also started noticing something else: a clear pull in my body toward what I actually wanted.
Now I help others learn how to listen to their bodies and trust what they find there.
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